Friday, July 29, 2011

Love & Respect Ephesian 5:22-33

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.


25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.[a] 28In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30because we are members of his body. 31 "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." 32This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. 33However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.




A wife has one driving need: to feel loved and when this need is met ,she is happy. A husband has one driving need: to be respected, if this need is met, he is happy.

Couple: how to spell love to your wife:
Closeness: she want you to be close
Openness: she want you to open up to her
Understanding: don't try to fix her, just listen
Peacemaking: she want you to say i am sorry
Loyality : she need to know you are commited
Esteem: she want you to honour and cherish her

How to spell Respect to your husband
Conquest: appericate his desire work and acheive
Hierachy: appericate his desire to protect and provide
Authority: appericate his desire to lead and serve
Insight: appericate his desire to analyze and counsel
Relationship: appericate his desire for shoulder to shoulder friendship
Sexuality: appericate his desire for sexual intimacy

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

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Sunday, July 17, 2011

Community

I been thinking a lot of community and how it is so important in the body of christ. Share life together with open and honest hearts not just fake how are you and saying i am fine and people walk away but true friendship that share life together that share in the struggles, the joys, up and down in life. To using your gifts no matter what gender you are like preaching or teaching or encouragement or worship. It is a beautiful thing to share life together. I have experience real community through 614 Vancouver and Xculture and it is wonderful and beautiful thing and it is how christ design the church. Here some Scriptures i found on Commununity,

The Bible speaks to us of community in many ways, including how we treat each other, the need for workers, helping the poor and loving and helping each other.

These scriptures talk about inclusion and identifying and using assets for community building:

Matthew 9:37 - The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few.
Mark 6:30 - Jesus listens to the apostles as they share their stories.
Mark 6:35-44 - Jesus cares for the needs of the community and uses the available assets for the good of the whole.
Mark 10:13-16 - Everyone is worthy. Jesus refuses to let others keep people away from him for any reason. He seeks to include and encourage all who seek Him.
Mark 12:41-44 - Everyone has assets that can be used for God.
Luke 14:7-14, 15-23 - Inclusion – Jesus tells us to go outside our comfort zone, and outside our circle of friends to include others.
Acts 4:35-44 - How the community can pool their assets to help each other.
Galatians 5:13-14 - Serving one another in love.
Ephesians 2:10 - We are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
James 2:14-26 - Faith and works.
James 3:13 - Show wisdom by deeds done in humility.
I John 2:9-11 - How to treat each other.
I John 3:10 - We are God’s children by what we do.
I Peter 5:1-7 - How to treat each other in church.

VBS

I did VBS last week at our church, it was so much fun and my group was great. this are the bible points of the week.

GOD MADE YOU
GOD LISTEN TO YOU
GOD WATCHES OVER YOU
GOD LOVES YOU NO MATTER WHAT
GOD GIVES YOU GOOD GIFTS

definality good points to remember and to share because it is true and everyone should know.